I would first find an ally either a family member or a friend who can be there with you throughout the process. I also recommend telling one person at a time instead of a group of people. And lastly, remember it is quite possible they already know but haven't had to face the reality until you disclose for yourself... people can be defensive when they are forced to deal with things they have been ignoring.. do it is actually normal for some to react with frustration or being defensive. Just don't take it personally and if it gets too intense have a safe place to go to so that you can leave and give them space to process
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